tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2578728360904637566.post8966015663537481184..comments2024-01-11T03:09:43.960-08:00Comments on The Hills Are Burning: Just. Fucking. Help.A.J.http://www.blogger.com/profile/06280771470428710391noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2578728360904637566.post-8054595980638786612018-12-13T22:32:58.454-08:002018-12-13T22:32:58.454-08:00Jen - One time, a guy thought I needed "help&...Jen - One time, a guy thought I needed "help" and took it upon himself to two-man a mostly empty cable cart with me. On flat land. Going half a block. But when it came to pushing fully loaded carts into the truck, he was conveniently off wrapping stingers somewhere.<br /><br /> A.J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06280771470428710391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2578728360904637566.post-23379523142666316872018-11-23T02:11:36.213-08:002018-11-23T02:11:36.213-08:00I find it incredibly frustrating when people "...I find it incredibly frustrating when people "help" me by grabbing something off my hands that I'm perfectly capable of lifting myself (and this probably leads to the comments you mentioned). I can't count the times when I've been lugging stuff for ages back and forth from the truck and NO ONE asks if I need help. Instead they just sit on their asses or do the lighter work as they see I'm doing the heavier stuff. I spent couple of hours yesterday going up and down steps whilst the guys were just tidying up upstairs. At least the best boy noticed I was on my own. Lot of guys only help you when they can look manly and strong doing it.<br /><br />JenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com